you can't pour from an empty cup

Today I was thinking about how people who are personally under lot of pressure tend to disseminate the stress they undergo.

 It is not a lame game that I want to focus on. I would rather like to  put light on the fact that all the goodness......all the positive vibes starts within an individual span.

So, take care of yourself- it is good for you, us and everyone else. Believe me, the moment you understand that negativity you can avoid by being good to yourself- you would never go back being where you are. We all have our roles to play- when we take care of ourselves it just gets easier to be be god to others.

DO not only go on taking care of yourself by buying ONLY expensive makeup or bag or shoes or that yummy burger. I mean these ARE important but there are other ways to do it. Wear nice ironed clean clothes. Set goals and achieve them. Set the alarm go to bed early and wake up refreshed. Say your prayers. Enjoy a cup of tea roadside. keep yourself happy find out ways. others are b…

Women and the truth

Women, Allah's another creation- who happens to be cause of tasting the forbidden fruit.

Women, Allah's divine creation who hold the heaven under her feet for her children- opens the door for Heaven for her children.

It is also the women, the gender who happens to be occupying most of hell or jahannam as stated in Islam.

Believe me, women judge each other the most, look at each other the most rather than looking at each others back. The homemaker who stays home and looks at a working woman- they judge each other. The homemaker remembers how badly she dreamt of working and utilizing her degrees. The working mom wonder how she always wanted to enjoy a cup of coffee during lazy morning and lay afternoon. Or take the kids to the field or park afternoon. She assumes the homemaker has enough time to get a pedi/ meni or a get a hair massage by default.

Is there any happiness at all in any side?? Guys can catch up and share a smoke easily- how easy is it for women? I think women no…

Blue Whale on the surface

It all started with my a sister in laws's msg on fb "how Blue whale game has entered into Bangladesh and a 13 year old died"

Then after a while my sister updated her status which summarizes down to "I am sick and tired of this blue whale game related posts. I am gonna shoot if anyone send me anymore awareness post on this shit".

 Then followed by another colleague's status update "if anyone tries to warn me not to play blue whale game- I promise to start playing. If you want to commit suicide you can do it anyways- no need to play a game" Then a friend gave a status "Nil Timi" with a blue background with two whale emoticons vefore and after the two words. I am not sure what she wanted to say- Whether it was a sad in thing or an awareness post.

From evening my Mom got all tensed and perturbed as Blue whale has made it to the national TV of Bangladesh. She read about it on social networks now it has made it to news (Oh god!) She called …
What do you say when you can not ....go on Do you ever say "Darling I am tired Let's part ways It is hard to say and move on with our own way?"
I think I just have been bullied....cyber bullied. For an official thing I gave a post and someone assumed she knows everything about everyone and charged me. She was such a weird person. Seriously give me break. Just when people rise above norms and religion they completely loose themselves. This is the same case. People turn into rude ignorant person. Politics is surely a creepy disease humans have to ddeal with. Some make life and enjoyment through it. Anyways....there shall be people like that eho sucks out the good in people. I have not been sleeping amazingly recently. I am having a hard time. Well I will talk about it.
Have you ever wondered the dynamics of society? I mean society includes both men and women. How come is it so twisted???? Why are only women judged now and then? Well I have come up with a thought on this. It has mostly to do with the human characteristics. When women feel they are the weaker sex it is kind of them vs the world. The world which consists both men and women. Have you ever heard men being felt the weaker gender? No! Because they are united, the society that we live in to impress has all friendly men who are never against each other. But for women the reality is different. We have men to oppose and a bunch of women to stop us to achieve our potentials and life goals. What is there was a world where they was no gender but only one motto- everyone is a human with desires and hopes? Where everyone would be treated equally as humans to be who they are?
People are machines as well. We know how the mechanics work on machines but we are yet to discover the secret of chemistry in humans which is basically the mechanism in humans. The more we are digging in....the more fucked it is.